Married parents. How often did/do you and your spouse get away?

it will e fine. My mom told me if you don't know the man you married what will you do when the kids are grown. So while this my way of thinking my husband take a weekend once a month. we go out once a week for dinner. My kids are grown now and there was no trama to their minds and they had a great relationship with my mom. She ped away a year ago and my 30 year old still remembers the weekend at Grandmas. and my children are urges to get away often gives me tons of time to spoil those kids